If you are in despair over a lost relationship and want to win her love back, you are certainly not alone. Thousands of newly single people who have experienced similar heartbreaking situations exist around the world. Although it may seem impossible right now, believe me when I tell you that there still is a chance you can win her love back.

To increase your chances of regaining the love of your ex and rekindling your relationship, follow these seven tips:

1. The first step is to honestly determine whether or not the ended relationship is worth rekindling. You need to ask yourself some tough questions when making this decision. For example, will your life be fuller and richer with this relationship in it? Will this relationship help you grow as a person? Before taking steps to win her love back, you need to be honest with yourself about whether or not pursuing your lost love will improve your life and lead to personal growth and fulfillment.

2. If you determine that you want to move forward with winning her back, then the next step is identifying relevant issues and mistakes you made in the relationship. This allows you to become fully aware of your responsibility in things going wrong and gives you the opportunity to ensure they do not happen again.

3. Next, you must fully and sincerely apologize to your ex for all of the mistakes you have made and the hurt you have caused. As humans, it is natural for us to make mistakes, but owning up to them and apologizing is an important step when working to win her love back.

4. If your ex also made mistakes, or perhaps is the one who made the mistakes that ended the relationship, then it is time to forgive them. In order to rekindle a broken relationship, you must be ready and willing to forgive past wrongdoings and to move past the mistakes they made. Even if your ex cheated on you, you have to learn to forgive if you truly want the relationship back.

5. Reflect on what initially attracted your ex to you and work on returning to that charming, attractive person they initially fell in love with. If you want to win her love back, you need to show her the person she fell in love with in the beginning.

6. Show your ex how great you really are. One effective way to win her love back is to get out and show that you have a life of your own filled with passions and interests. Show her that you are responsible, engaging, likeable and interesting.

7. Lastly, never date someone just to try to make your ex love jealous. In the vast majority of cases, this will only push you and your ex farther apart and decrease you chance of winning her back. She might think that you have really moved on and will do so herself. Stay true to the one you really love and show her how important she is to you. That is the best way to win her love back.